Many years ago, at the beginning of my spiritual journey, I thought that in order to talk to God or Spirit, I had to set aside a special time and place to meditate or pray. I would close my eyes and focus on my breathing, wondering if I was doing it right. But instead of helping me connect, it actually distracted me. The clock would tick louder than usual. I could hear my cat in the litter box like it was digging to China. My mind would wander to everything I had to do tha